With so many of the tragedies that have occurred lately, both in the schools and in the workplace, it is obvious that these troubled individuals have problems with social perceptions, have difficulties in controlling their emotions, and lack basic rational coping techniques. Had these individuals been able to more constructively reason out and act on their problems, such extremes of behavior would never have occurred. Innocent lives would have been spared.
Considering the constraints of our current economy, most school systems do not have the money for anger and violence prevention programs. It's necessary that we parents learn how to effectively help our children to grow into adults with those qualities which we value and which are necessary to succeed in today's world.
Our society is operating on a level of "just barely surviving" in terms of time demands. Most of us -- and that includes our children -- are stressed out, sleep deprived, guilt riddled, and overloaded. When we come home, most of us just want to "veg out." Many of us "socially interact" only with our TV Screens.
The "Save The Kids" Program will help you change your life around, for the better. It will "center" your family.
A wise philosopher -- actually a character from the movie Star Wars, Episode One -- once said, "Your Focus Will Determine Your Reality."
It is important to take a look at what your current focus is in your life. You can easily determine that by examining how you spend your time on a daily basis.
(If you can't "remember" how your time was spent, buy a "Day Planner" or simply write down your daily tasks as/after you perform them.)
Besides writing down how your time was spent, also jot down the moods you were in, and your emotional reactions to various life situations.
When you life feels out-of-control, it's because the majority of your emotions are negative in nature. You'll need to instantly identify and filter out your negative emotions so you'll be able to more constructively change any situation and/or learn how to accept another person within that situation. You can change your moods, if you know what to do, and how to do it.
After looking at this time/emotions list, you'll be surprised at what your current focus really is. (It'll probably be allot different that what you thought it was.) Sometimes we paint ourselves into a corner -- as a stop-gap measure -- without even realizing it. We give in to the "instant solution," instead of sticking to our original, (hopefully) thought-out game-plan.
You can't develop a focus if you are "all over the place" with how you spend your time. When you are feeling stress and operating on a short fuse it's your mind's way of warning you that you're out-of-control!
Only by heading this warning can you develop a focus, set your priorities on-track, balance your emotional state, and gain back control over your time.
As a parent, your children should always be your Number One Priority. My "Save The Children" Program will help you learn how to set this priority as your core belief ... stick to it ... and raise accomplished, well-adjusted children that don't carry around emotional baggage. Your entire family will thank you!
Enjoy the benefits of gaining control over your emotions. You can do it! You will have to work at this, but with the right skills and determination, many people have been able to experience significant improvements.
"Life Solutions" will also help you focus on being a better parent ... having better workplace relations ... and enhancing relationships, in general.